{"id":3405,"date":"2015-08-19T00:04:48","date_gmt":"2015-08-19T07:04:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.hoc6.org\/global\/?p=3405"},"modified":"2015-08-18T23:07:29","modified_gmt":"2015-08-19T06:07:29","slug":"819-sixteen-characteristics-of-love-%e8%af%971001-5-%e6%9e%97%e5%89%8d1227-1313-%e6%ad%8c51-814","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.hoc6.org\/global\/2015\/08\/19\/819-sixteen-characteristics-of-love-%e8%af%971001-5-%e6%9e%97%e5%89%8d1227-1313-%e6%ad%8c51-814\/","title":{"rendered":"8\/19: Sixteen Characteristics of Love (\u8bd7100:1-5 \u6797\u524d12:27-13:13 \u6b4c5:1-8:14)"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>\u8bfb\u7ecf\uff1a\u8bd7100:1-5 \u6797\u524d12:27-13:13 \u6b4c5:1-8:14<\/h2>\n<h2>Sixteen Characteristics of Love<\/h2>\n<div class=\"bioy-body\">\n<p>I tried following the example of a missionary, I once heard about, who each day would read the four verses from today\u2019s New Testament passage, which lists the sixteen characteristics of love. For the word \u2018love\u2019 she would substitute her own name. When she reached a characteristic that she knew was not true of her, she had to stop. Her aim was, one day, to get through the whole list.<\/p>\n<p>The four verses (1 Corinthians 13:4\u20137) start with \u2018love is patient\u2019. So I substituted my own name and started with \u2018Nicky is patient\u2019. I do not think it will come as any surprise to those who know me well that I had to stop there!<\/p>\n<p>The great evangelist D. L. Moody was once staying with a group of friends in England. One evening they asked Henry Drummond to read and expound on a portion of Scripture. After some urging, Henry drew a small New Testament from his pocket, opened it at 1 Corinthians 13 and began to speak on the subject of love. D. L. Moody wrote in response:<\/p>\n<p>\u2018It seemed to me that I had never heard anything so beautiful. The one great need in our Christian life is love, more love to God and to each other. Would that we could all move into that love chapter and live there.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>We get an idea of what Henry Drummond must have said that evening in his book <em>The Greatest Thing in the World<\/em>. He writes: \u2018What is&#8230; the supreme good? You have life before you. Once only you can live it. What is the noblest object of desire, the supreme gift to covet? In 1 Corinthians 13 Paul takes us to Christianity at its source; and there we see \u2018the greatest of these is <em>love<\/em>.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>God is love. We deceive ourselves if we think we can love God and hate other people (1 John 4:20). Love should be number one on your spiritual priority list. It should be the main thing in your life. Love is, indeed, the greatest thing in the world. It is, in the words of St Paul, \u2018the most excellent way\u2019 (1 Corinthians 12:31).<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"bioy-body\">\n<h2>1. Enjoy God\u2019s love for you<\/h2>\n<p><a class=\"inline-reading\" href=\"http:\/\/classic.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Psalm%20100:1-5&amp;version=NIV&amp;interface=print\" target=\"_blank\">Psalm 100:1-5<\/a>The psalmist exhorts us to \u2018Shout for joy to the Lord\u2026 Worship the Lord with gladness; come before him with joyful songs\u2019 (vv.1\u20132). He tells us to \u2018enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name\u2019 (v.4); \u2018Enter with the password: \u201cThank you!\u201d\u2019 (v.4, MSG); \u2018Be thankful <em>and <\/em>say so to Him\u2019 (v.4, AMP).<\/p>\n<p>Why? What is the reason for such joy, thanksgiving and praise? The psalmist gives the answer in verse 5: \u2018For the Lord is good and <em>his love<\/em> endures forever; his faithfulness continues through all generations.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>God is good and he loves you. This pretty much sums up the message of the entire Bible. It is<em>his <\/em>love that is the source of <em>our <\/em>love: \u2018We <em>love <\/em>because <em>he first loved us<\/em>\u2019 (1 John 4:19). Understand, believe and accept that he loves <em>you <\/em>and enjoy his love.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Lord, I thank and praise you for your amazing love for me. Thank you that your love endures forever. Thank you that your love is the source of my love for you and for others. Help me to enjoy your love today.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"bioy-body\">\n<h2>2. Embrace a life of love<\/h2>\n<p><a class=\"inline-reading\" href=\"http:\/\/classic.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=1%20Corinthians%2012:27-13:13&amp;version=NIV&amp;interface=print\" target=\"_blank\">1 Corinthians 12:27-13:13<\/a>Henry Drummond explains that at the beginning of this chapter we have love <em>contrasted<\/em>; in the heart of it, we have love <em>analysed <\/em>and towards the end we have love <em>defended<\/em> as the supreme gift.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Love contrasted<br \/>\nThe description of love in 1 Corinthians 13 is one of the most beautiful and best-known passages in the entire New Testament. Many non-churchgoers would recognise it as being read at weddings. Paul places it in the middle of his teaching about the gifts of the Holy Spirit in the body of Christ.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"rteindent1\">He lists nine gifts in 1 Corinthians 12:27\u201330. At the start of chapter 12 he also listed nine gifts. There is an overlap of five. So thirteen gifts of the Holy Spirit are listed in all. Paul has been describing the importance of these gifts for the body of Christ to function fully.<\/p>\n<p class=\"rteindent1\">He is not diminishing the importance of gifts by talking about love. Rather, he is saying \u2018gifts are very important, but love is <em>even<\/em> more important.\u2019 We desperately need the gifts of the Holy Spirit to be properly exercised in the church today. However, as in Paul\u2019s day, love is even more important. It is \u2018the most excellent way\u2019 (v.31).<\/p>\n<p class=\"rteindent1\">In fact, Paul says if we have all the gifts and give everything we have to the poor and die the death of a martyr but we have not love, we gain nothing (13:1\u20133). He is not criticising the use of the gifts, such as speaking in tongues and prophecy (vv.1\u20132), anymore than he is criticising philanthropists or martyrs (v.3). He is simply stressing the importance that <em>everything <\/em>you do should be done in love.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Love analysed<br \/>\nPaul then lists sixteen characteristics of love. Every time I read this list I feel deeply challenged. I know how far short of all these characteristics \u2013 not just the first one! \u2013 I so often fall. I like <em>The Message<\/em> translation:<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u2018Love never gives up [\u2018Love is patient\u2019, NIV]<br \/>\nLove cares more for others than for self.<br \/>\nLove doesn\u2019t want what it doesn\u2019t have.<br \/>\nLove doesn\u2019t strut,<br \/>\nDoesn\u2019t have a swelled head,<br \/>\nDoesn\u2019t force itself on others,<br \/>\nIsn\u2019t always \u201cme first\u201d,<br \/>\nDoesn\u2019t fly off the handle,<br \/>\nDoesn\u2019t keep score of the sins of others,<br \/>\nDoesn\u2019t revel when others grovel,<br \/>\nTakes pleasure in the flowering of truth,<br \/>\nPuts up with anything,<br \/>\nTrusts God always,<br \/>\nAlways looks for the best,<br \/>\nNever looks back,<br \/>\nBut keeps going to the end\u2019 (vv.4\u20137, MSG).<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Love defended<br \/>\nLove is permanent. Everything else is temporary. All the gifts of the Spirit will one day be unnecessary. Some have argued that what Paul is saying here is that the gifts of the Spirit (such as speaking in tongues) would cease at some point in history. In fact, he is saying the very opposite. He is saying that the gifts of the Spirit <em>will not cease until we see Jesus \u2018face to face\u2019<\/em> (v.12). As yet we <em>do not<\/em> see Jesus \u2018face to face\u2019 and therefore the gifts of the Spirit have <em>not <\/em>yet ceased. We still need them desperately.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"rteindent1\">But, the greatest thing in the world is love. Faith, hope and love are a great trilogy, but \u2018the greatest of these is love\u2019 (v.13).<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Lord, we desperately need this kind of love in the church today. Help me grow in love to reflect the way St Paul describes. May I make my love for you, and for others, the highest priority of my life.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"bioy-body\">\n<h2>3. Ensure that love is the main thing<\/h2>\n<p><a class=\"inline-reading\" href=\"http:\/\/classic.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Song%20of%20Songs%205:1-8:14&amp;version=NIV&amp;interface=print\" target=\"_blank\">Song of Songs 5:1-8:14<\/a>The word \u2018love\u2019 or \u2018lover\u2019 appears over and over again in the Song of Songs. It is all about romantic love between a lover and his beloved. They are overcome by love for one another. The beloved says that she is \u2018heartsick with love for him\u2019 (5:8, MSG).<\/p>\n<p>There is a strong element of physical and erotic love. Both describe the physical beauty of their marriage partner (5:10\u201316; 6:4\u20139). As one commentator put it, \u2018The Song of Songs is a long, lyric poem about erotic love and sexual desire \u2013 a poem in which the body is the object of desire and source of delight, and lovers engage in a continual game of seeking and finding in anticipation, enjoyment and assurance of sexual gratification.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>But their love goes way beyond the physical and the erotic. The beloved says, \u2018This is my lover, this is my friend\u2019 (5:16c). There is nothing better in marriage than having someone as your partner, your lover <em>and <\/em>your best friend.<\/p>\n<p>In yesterday\u2019s passage the lover says, \u2018You are a garden fountain, a well of flowing water\u2019 (4:15). Each human being has a never-ending flow of beautiful and wonderful resources.<\/p>\n<p>As the Song of Songs draws to an end, there is a beautiful description of the never ending quality of love: \u2018Place me like a seal over your heart, like a seal on your arm; for love is as strong as death, its jealousy unyielding as the grave\u2019 (8:6). And now, after the resurrection of Jesus, we can say that love is <em>even stronger<\/em> than death: \u2018Love never fails\u2019 (1 Corinthians 13:8).<\/p>\n<p>Again, I like <em>The Message<\/em> version:<\/p>\n<p>\u2018The fire of love stops at nothing \u2013<br \/>\nit sweeps everything before it.<br \/>\nFlood waters can\u2019t drown love,<br \/>\ntorrents of rain can\u2019t put it out.<br \/>\nLove can\u2019t be bought, love can\u2019t be sold \u2013<br \/>\nit\u2019s not to be found in the marketplace\u2019 (8:6c\u20137, MSG).<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Thank you, Lord, that your love for me is like a fire that stops at nothing. May my love for you be the highest priority in my life. Thank you that your love cannot be bought or earned, but only gratefully and humbly received.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<h2 class=\"bioy-body\">Pippa Adds<\/h2>\n<div class=\"bioy-body\">\n<p><strong>1 Corinthians 13:1\u20137<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>These extraordinary verses need to be read constantly in homes, schools, businesses\u2026 everywhere. 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